1. What is it about New Year’s Eve, that makes you stop and take stock and wait for something to happen and then realise that it isn’t going to, unless you really go out of your way and rock the boat and do something dangerous, impulsive. Or downright calculated.2. I’ve written 10 new year resolutions. Some are scary. I read somewhere you should print and tape them to your desk so you cannot run away from them. I’ll store mine on my laptop. 3. What am I scared of? Phone calls in the night. The inevitable. 4. I love being a father. My son is still at an age where he asks me questions and waits for an answer. He is already a better dancer and wordsmith than I can ever be. 5. If I find a cartoonist, I will finally get the story we’ve called ‘Oink the Pig’ actually written. Instead of just woven in our heads, in laughter, on the way to school, each morning. 6. How to learn from mistakes, grow a skin, move forward without listening to all the voices clamouring for attention. 7. How to move forward. Period. 8. If you have words, you can wriggle out of trouble as much as you can land yourself in it. 9. You do not have to be next to me for me to think the world of you. 10. Count your blessings. We’re still standing. Here comes the new year.